Making A Friendship That Lasts Forever

Making a friendship that lasts forever might seem a bit over the top but, if you look closely to some friendships, you will discover that theirs is a friendship that lasts forever. You can have friends so close to you that they become part of your family. There are ways in which you can transform your relationships to make them this way. It is never an easy task and, you have to begin with yourself. If you are a selfish person filled with negativity and malice, chances are that you will never make good friendships; at least not those that will last forever. You will realize that there is a pattern when it comes to friendships in your life; and it is up to you to put an end to this cycle. You must become the friend you want to have. In other words, good people will be attracted to you because of your good friendship traits. You cannot get rid of this negativity if you are not willing to change. You must want change for you to get it. It starts by admitting that you have not been a very good person. With this you are ready to begin a process in which you can have good friends who really care about you.

To have friends is not enough however; to have good friends is what you should be looking for if you want friendship that lasts forever. Look at the places you are hanging out at. Are you in an environment that will breed friendship? This is a question that you have to ask yourself sincerely if you really want something real. Many religious people will look for friends in churches but, this is not a guarantee that you will meet the friends you want. You have to go a step further and question what kind of people they are. If you are in a particular age group, it will be better if you considered people who are near your age. This is because you will have more in common. Sometimes when we are going about our business, friendly people come along and we are able to establish contact with them. At all times, be open to having friends and, you will see the difference. When you have a lot in common, you will find yourself chatting away and this is the beginning of building a friendship that lasts forever. You have to be honest and sincere when talking to potential friends, remember, you want something real. Friends will stick closer that a brother can only when there is mutual affection and love.

A friendship that lasts forever must be based on trust and love. You also need to spend enough time if you really want to know each other. There are no miracles or magic and you can make a relationship work. It is about not being petty and being people focused on great things that will happen in your lives. To have a friendship that lasts will require you to celebrate with your friends when they are celebrating and, you will also need to cry with them when they are hurting and, you will develop a strong bond which will be unbreakable.

By: Francis K Githinji