Adopting Friendship Art In Your Life

Friendship art is something you should take very seriously. You have to learn the art of friendship and more so how to be a good friend. Good friends are hard to find and you can become that jewel that all friend seekers are going to be looking for. Friendship art does not have to be taught in school however, you need some few guides that will enable you meet the right people who you can hang out with. There are several things that you need to know about the art of friendship. First, you have to be honest. Honesty will have to start with yourself. You know your flaws and you also know what your strengths are. Capitalize on your good attributes then seek to improve some of the flaws that you might have. There is nothing wrong in admitting that you have weaknesses. In fact, most people never master the art, because they choose to continue with their flaws. You cannot fully eliminate flaws but, you can make a good effort to make things right. An example of weakness that you can have is to talk behind the back of your friends with lies. Gossip and back biting can really become a chronic problem to you if you do not work on it. They are a sure killer for all relationships. You need to look into ways in which you can keep information to yourself especially when it has been rumored by others.

Friendship art is best learnt in action. There is nothing complicated about acknowledging the fact that you need friendships that are based on trust and mutual affection. For this reason, you will seek to have love in your heart to love your friends. Friendship art cannot work without love. There are some who do not even like their friends. Instead of just wasting time and being together for convenience, it is better you end a relationship where there is no love or even affection. Love cannot survive without respect; you will need friends who care enough to respect you for who you are. If you do not deserve respect, chances are that you will not get it. You must therefore know that to have people respect you, you must earn it. You earn it by your behavior and, the kind of personality you have. If you have been looking out for your friends in a sincere way, you will be respected. Another aspect of art of friendship is confidence. Do you have confidence in your friends? In a good friendship relationship, you should have confidence in friends, which allows you to pave way for trust.

Friendship art needs to be developed over some time and, when you really have all the tips, you will definitely be on your way to making the most out of what you have learnt. Go online and look for other tips as well as hear from people and experts. Friendship will need all the input that you can find. Many people do not go that extra mile to make their friendships last. Little do they know that; it is the power of friendship that keeps the world going round! If we did not have friendships between countries, we could be at war. Let us concentrate on making friends and with this art, we will not have to go to war even in our personal lives.

By: Francis K Githinji