How To Blow His Mind Right Out Of The Water!

In the bedroom, there should be a give and take relationship if you want to have a 'harmonious' sex life. Naturally, you are working towards extracting the utmost pleasure out of your sessions in the sack – but there are times when you should be generous enough to take into consideration the pleasure of your partner in bed.

And this is exactly where your 'oral' skills come in. Giving oral sex to a woman is called cunnilingus, while to a man, fellatio.

Why the Effort of Giving Head is All Worth It

There's a cartoon I once saw which illustrates the differences between the erogenous zones of men and women. For the illustration of the woman, several arrows were pointing at different parts of her body like her breasts, vagina, hips, thighs, neck, mouth and even her arms. The man, on the other hand, has numerous arrows but they are only pointing at one direction: his penis.

This just goes to show how when it comes to the anatomy of a man, his penis is the Holy Grail among the erogenous zones. Which is the exact reason why the effort of performing fellatio on him is all worth it. Men like the act of receiving oral love so much because it feels good and it makes them feel sexually desired.

Fellatio Tips & Tricks that will Send Him Shooting to Cloud Nine!

If you're a novice at giving blow jobs, there are a few basics that you need to keep in mind when going down on your man.

First, get on a comfortable position. You don't want to get a crick in your neck while performing fellatio, so make sure that you are positioned comfortably – whether it's in bed or any other private place in the house.

Second, if the penis is not fully erect yet, try to stimulate it with a kiss. Warm the head of the penis with your breath then use your tongue to give the underside of his penis a few warm, long licks.

Third, familiarize yourself with the parts of the penis – which includes the frenulum which is that delicate flap of skin between the shaft and the head. This is the part that you can lick and stimulate.

Also, remember that the head of the penis is more sensitive than the shaft. Swirl your tongue around the rim of the head. Once you take his penis into your mouth, give him light strokes as you go down and make it firmer as you go up.

If you cannot take the entire penis into your mouth, make sure to help speed things up by having your hand go up and down his shaft that your mouth cannot reach.

More importantly, learn how to enjoy the act of giving fellatio. Nothing turns on men more than a woman who's so into the act of giving head, that the mere sight of you worshipping his penis is enough to send him into a mind-blowing orgasm.

By: David Tottenham