Be Better In Bed - 3 Quick Easy Steps

Whether you are in a relationship, or you are single, and no matter how great we think we are in bed, there is always room for improvement. Once we realize that, we will become the best lovers ever. I have discovered that there is ALWAYS more to learn.

So, I've compiled a few very simple ways to instantly become better in bed:

1. Communication. I find communication to be the KEY to being the best lover in the world. Everyone is different, and Sam Kinison quoted it best about women. He said, "Women are like a combination lock, except they change the combination every time." This is so true about women. What we liked yesterday, we might like something different today. Not only is it important to communicate with your partner during sex, but, it is also important to communicate when you are not. An example would be at the breakfast table the following morning. A woman could say, "You know, last night while we were making love, I really enjoyed it when you... ". Or a man could ask, "Last night, while we were making love, would you have preferred more of this or less of this?".
2. You are beautiful just the way you are. You know, sometimes, people are held back in the love making department because of how they feel about themselves. Whether it is women or men, we all feel self conscious about some aspect of our appearance. So, if your partner is holding back, it may be because they are feeling self conscious about themselves in some way. Go to the mirror, take a good look at yourself, and tell yourself you are beautiful! YOU ARE!
3. Learn the art of presence. When you are completely present with the other person, you can get lost in the moment. Not only will you have more fun, but, your partner will have A LOT more fun! Being present simply means to stop thinking about all the things you should be doing, or that need to get done. You are already in the moment, so, enjoy it. The more fun you have, the more fun your partner will have. Also, when you are completely present with the other person, you are able to read their needs a lot more. So, clear your mind and mentally stay where you are at.

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By: Jacklyn Lick